Crying wolf or crying for help

How do you know the difference between crying wolf and crying for help with teenagers. Even better, spoiled teenagers. Manipulation has been her MO, using medical terminology to describe her sickness is her warped gift. She doesn't get her way, she freaks out, she has created these problems and now they are too big and out of control to fix. Back at meadows and this is the 4th time in two years. Will this time be different? It better be. I feel like a volcano!